My boyfriend is constantly over-yzing situations?

i think it IS a big deal! you are bound to feel like this in your situation, he should not be thinking about you dieing someday! he should be possitive- if you love someone you think of now not the future - that comes soon enough, my husband and i had children for us at that time, because we wanted them, because we loved each other, and what will be will be you cant change anything he knew our children would be part of us, therefore your children will be part of you and if he cares about you if the worst happened he would have part of you with him forever and i think he either does not care enough for you or he doesn't want children at all, tell him to yze this!! (i have been wed for 27 yrs)