Can it be infected? and if so what should i do?

So i got my gall bladder removed about a week ago. They way they do it now is makin 3 little wholes in ur abdomen and one in ur belly on takin the gall bladder out from there. To close it up they use strip tapes. The ones from my abdomen fell out but the one from my belly on is still there. Now it has been oozing for bout 5 ddays and the smell is crazy.. could it be infected if so what should i do? i mean i know i should go to the doctors which i am on tuesday but wat should i do till tuesday?

My Husband Is Not The Man I Married...Help?

I have been married for almost three years. I have no children, but I am desperately in love with my husband. I have no idea what happened, and I am sure I am at fault somewhere. My husband used to be so doting, he would do everything and anything to make me happy, yet over the past year he won't let me come around his friends (he says I create too much drama—so if he goes to hang out with any of his friends I am not allowed to come...tonight he's going to a cookout), he started calling me names, he gets overly frustrated with me all the time and says I annoy him. He says he loves me sometimes...I asked him if he was seeing anyone else, he just avoids the question…actually any question that involves our relationship on any real level. He will spend money doing stuff with his friends, but never has enough money to take me out on dates. We just stay home, eat, watch television, or take naps together. He hates my parents suddenly enough to avoid going to my family functions, but gets really angry if I don't go to his. I cook for him all the time, I clean up after him. If I do anything wrong by his standards he yells at me. He almost never says sorry for hurting my feelings or being mean to me. I say sorry all the time...too much I gather because now he won't accept my apologies. He says sorry coming from me doesn't mean anything anymore. He doesn't trust me at all. He checks up on me all the time, won't let me wear clothing he deems too revealing, and accuses me constantly of cheating on him. Having relationships with other men is out of the question, and it’s even gotten so bad that he has started saying all my friends are bad influences on me and gets angry if I do anything with them. The bedroom has never been an issue for us. I have always said that this is the only area of our relationship that has never suffered any issue. He is attentive and loving. I just don’t understand why it doesn’t translate to our “functional/practical” lives. I don’t feel wanted, loved, or needed in our practical life…I just feel like a bother all the time. Emotionally I am so frustrated and exhausted because it seems as if everything I do doesn't help…sometimes I feel my efforts just make things worse. He tells me I should know what I need to do to make this relationship better. BUT I DON’T!!! Does anyone have any advice for me? I wanted to take him to counseling but he refuses to go. I don’t believe in divorce unless it is the last resort…I don’t feel we’ve gotten there yet. I want him to love me again, to treat me sweetly and kindly. The man I know today is not the man I married. Is it too late? Can I do something to change his attitude towards me? Please, anyone…Help.

Interior painting help needed?

I would do it, I think the texture will make the handprints look nice. Are you gonna let the boys do their hands?

If you had the chance to interview any celebrity, who would it be and what would you ask them?

This is not strictly a what-if question. I have actually been given the permission by a teen magazine to interview the celebrity of my choice. I need some ideas! Part of me wants to interview a musician like Vanessa Carlton or Michelle Branch but another part of me knows I need to interview someone the majority of people recognize... It can be anyone from Laura Bush to Dana Carvey to Zac Efron.

Anothєr Bracє Quєstion?

It takes around two hours or more. First glue the brackets on. One by one they place on your teeth, they use a light to help glue them on. They put the wires in and you choose your rubberband colors.

Where do you start when you are a virgin and horny...? I don't mean this question to be a joke...?

I'm a thirty year old virgin/med student...no kidding...I don't have time to search for a boy friend or lover...i'm not even sure that my ual feelings are what they should be..i've spent most of my life in a lab, or library...i know all that there is to know about ...accept how exactly to feel or act on those feelings...No, i'm not going to get a vibrator...I tried touching myself, but it did nothing for me...i need suggestions

How would you do in a screaming contest?

I would have no chance of winning as I can't scream! I can shout really loudly but if I try to scream my voice just cuts out.